A second reading
闷 (first tone) is the physical 'stuffy / muggy' word — the room is hot and airless, the lid is on tight. Most common in
闷热 (sultry, hot and stuffy),
闷头 (head-down, silently absorbed in something),
闷声 (quietly, without a word),
闷骚 (outwardly reserved but inwardly passionate). Rule of thumb: if the word is about temperature / airlessness / silence-on-the-outside, it's mēn; if it's about a sad or trapped feeling, it's mèn.