请神容易送神难

請神容易送神難
qǐngshén róngyì sòngshén nán
proverb

Meanings

  1. 1 it's easier to invite the spirit in than to send it away
  2. 2 easy to start, hard to finish; once you've let trouble in, it's hard to get rid of

Examples

HSK 7-9
Qǐngshén róngyì sòngshén nán, nǐ zuìhǎo bié zhāorě tā.
It's easier to invite the spirit in than to send it away - you'd better not provoke him.
HSK 7-9
Gōngsī qǐng lái de zhè wèi gùwèn, zhēnshì qǐngshén róngyì sòngshén nán.
This consultant the company brought in - it's truly easier to invite him in than to send him away.

Tips

culture
Rooted in folk religion. Inviting a deity to a household altar 请神 is a simple ritual; properly seeing the deity off 送神 so it doesn't linger and cause trouble is much harder. The saying generalizes: hiring someone, taking on a partner, or accepting 'help' is easy; extracting yourself later isn't.
register
A 俗语 (common saying), not a formal chengyu. Used to warn against rash entanglements: bad employees, freeloading guests, dodgy investors, problematic in-laws.

Stroke Order

请 qǐng
神 shén
容 róng
易 yì
送 sòng
难 nán