Loyal advice grates on the ear, but bitter medicine cures the illness.
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From 《孔子家语·六本》, and echoed in 《史记·留侯世家》 where Zhang Liang uses it to admonish Liu Bang: 良药苦口利于病，忠言逆耳利于行 — 'good medicine is bitter in the mouth but good for illness; loyal advice grates on the ear but good for conduct.' The full couplet is one of the most quoted maxims in the Confucian tradition.
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Nearly always cited together with its twin 忠言逆耳利于行. The shorter idiom 良药苦口 (liángyàokǔkǒu) is the canonical chengyu form; the longer version here foregrounds the pragmatic punchline 利于病 ('good for the illness').
