忠言逆耳利于行

忠言逆耳利於行
zhōngyánnì'ěrlìyúxíng
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 honest advice grates on the ear but benefits one's conduct
  2. 2 frank criticism is hard to hear but good for action
  3. 3 truthful counsel is bitter but useful

Examples

Lǐngdǎo yào dǒngde zhōngyán nì'ěr lì yú xíng, tīng de jìn pīpíng.
Leaders must understand that honest advice grates on the ear but aids action — they must be able to hear criticism.
Péngyǒu shuōhuà zhíjiē, dàn zhōngyán nì'ěr lì yú xíng, wǒ hěn gǎnjī.
My friend speaks bluntly, but frank advice benefits conduct — I'm grateful.

Tips

history
From 《·世家》: 利于毒药利于 — 'Loyal advice grates on the ear but benefits conduct; bitter medicine offends the mouth but cures disease.' Zhang Liang (张良) used this line to persuade Liu Bang to leave the Qin palace and restrain his troops. The earlier 《·》 has a closely related formulation.
usage
Often cited as the paired proverb 良药利于利于. The shorter (plain chengyu form) is equally common. Formal and admonitory.

Stroke Order

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