偃旗息鼓

yǎnqíxīgǔ
idiom #78,335

Meanings

  1. 1 to lower the flags and still the drums
  2. 2 to cease fighting; to call off an action
  3. 3 (figuratively) to give up or back down quietly

Examples

Yǎnkàn xíngshì bùlì, tāmen zhǐhǎo yǎnqíxīgǔ.
Seeing the situation turn against them, they had no choice but to call things off.
Zhēnglùnle yīzhèn, shuāngfāng yǎnqíxīgǔ.
After arguing for a while, both sides quieted down.

Tips

history
From Pei Songzhi's commentary on 《··》: Zhao Yun, retreating into camp, flung open the gates, lowered the flags and silenced the drums. Cao Cao's troops, suspecting ambush, pulled back. A famous feint rather than a real surrender.
usage
Often implies a quiet, face-saving retreat rather than outright defeat. Can describe campaigns, protests, arguments, or business pushes that are dropped.

Stroke Order

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