不如退而结网

不如退而結網
bùrútuìérjiéwǎng
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 better to go back and weave a net
  2. 2 fig. stop wishing and start preparing the tools you need
  3. 3 rather than envy others' success, go build your own capability

Examples

Yǔqí xiànmù biérén chénggōng, bùrú tuì ér jié wǎng, tíshēng zìjǐ.
Rather than envying others' success, it's better to go home and weave the net — improve yourself.
Méi kǎo shàng yánjiūshēng bié huīxīn, bùrú tuì ér jié wǎng, míngnián zài lái.
Don't lose heart if you didn't get into grad school — go back and prepare your net, try again next year.

Tips

history
From the Han-dynasty 《·》, itself quoting an older proverb: 不如退 — 'Standing at the deep pool envying the fish is worse than going back and weaving a net.' Dong Zhongshu () used it to urge Emperor Wu of Han to stop admiring ancient peace from afar and instead build the institutions that produce it.
usage
Almost always paired with the preceding . = weave a fishing net (prepare the means). A stock motivational line in education and business talks.

Stroke Order

退 tuì
ér
jié
wǎng